The Window and the Great White Bird

I looked through the shimmering glass window. I saw her ornate writing desk, half opened like someone had gone through it looking for something. A lot of things I remembered placing there were missing. A few journals, I think. There were a few loose sheafs of paper. I recognised her handwriting. Those were my words, in a different time. The Sun was setting in the distance, I looked to my right side. The bed so perfectly made. Mine. But it wouldn’t be slept in, it had not been. For a long time. Briefly I considered just that. I sat there and soaked in the room. My one and only chance to see it. This wasn’t my time. I had to go back after all.

I closed my eyes. I remembered. She walked around, she seemed restless. She had never been more alone, but she had also never felt more free as she looked at the elephant that seemed to have materialised before her. The elephant didn’t seem afraid of her, she felt calm looking at it. She walked towards it. It sat down, so did she. She stroked it gently. Murmured words of comfort, and also relaying her predicament. How strange, she thought… That a creature she had only encountered a while ago should make her feel so safe, as though everything was going to be just fine. She sat down, her back resting against the elephant and closed her eyes. And waited. I felt the hours pass by. I knew what was coming. Sure enough, there appeared a white bird in the sky, the wings flapping majestically. The bird rose up towards the Sun, as though to devour it. There was a great explosion of light, like a canopy of shimmering fragments of diamonds enveloping the entire forest they were in. She rose, she was free.

She had arrived at the beach. She watched as the waters lapped at her feet gently, an ever present cool breeze playing with her curls, casting them about hither and thither. She opened her arms wide and received all of it, smiling serenely.

It was at once, the most peaceful and the most heartbreaking thing I had ever seen. I wanted to see no more, I opened my eyes. My eyes flooded with joy and envy, I know not if those tears running down my cheeks were mine or hers. It does not matter.

Here I am. Once again. Till the great white bird comes, I bid you all adieu!

Girl Crushes – Guess Who?

A Queen whose machinations shape the fate of a powerful empire. Another, a Princess whose words would change the history of that empire forever. That woman whose grace, prowess, intelligence and beauty made the prospective Emperor bow before her. Yet another, a fierce warrior. A Goddess of unparalleled skill, chosen for the most elite of missions. One woman who is driven by duty and family, the very family that goes on to betray her. Another, driven by love. A Queen she remains, even in captivity. Living without lament for the loss of her love, his life most cruelly snatched away well before his time. The other is driven by duty and sacrifice, inspiring the Saviour to take up arms and thus, changing the trajectory of his destiny forever. Setting in motion, a chain of events that inexplicably intertwined the tales of all three women as they powerfully come together to defeat The Man.

I did something stupid

I did something foolhardy and dangerous yesterday. Perhaps to those thrill – seeking types who constantly live on the edge, what I did may not even register as a blip on their radar. But I am not one of them. For me… the idea of doing something is way more exciting than the actual execution of that idea.

I have a fear of heights. What I did yesterday was that I first climbed a ladder as a warm up act to the real thing I was going to perform, walking the narrow ledge on my terrace. That is about a twenty – feet drop on to concrete if things had gone bad. So, I began by holding on to the parapet wall, crouched carefully to get in to a posture where I would be able to maintain my balance, the best way I could. I did have a family member close by, whose hand I could hold if I felt like I was losing my balance or had this sensation of falling over backwards. I walked cautiously but boldly, the wind in my hair feeling incredibly powerful and liberating but I dared not look down lest I get all dizzy. I ducked to dodge a few wires and continued. At one point, the wind was a bit strong and while I logically knew that it was not strong enough to have blown me away, I did have a slight sense of having to re – centre myself and felt fear settle heavily like a rock, in my gut. The video I made is liberally peppered with mentions of deities, swears and some total randomness I made up on the spot, convincing myself all along that I could do it. As great as the feeling of having done it is, truthfully it is very momentary and fleeting. Afterwards kicks in the feeling of “Meh”. At least for me, it did. I didn’t feel like I had conquered some huge thing, I didn’t feel particularly triumphant. I was glad to be back on firm ground again.

Here’s the thing about these kinds of things though. All we want to do is The Thing. We do not pause to think what we could have lost. Especially considering that I had no proper supervision or safety harness/ equipment when I did it. It was incredibly selfish of me, this idea that I could do whatever I wanted, and I didn’t care about the consequences of my actions. If things hadn’t worked out the way they did, the best and worst-case scenarios would have been equally bad, for the people who would have been involved in the situation and me. Whatever the reason may have been to spur me on, it is never enough to justify an idiotic action like that. I just happened to get incredibly fortunate this time.

This post is an open admission of the failure of forethought and consideration on my part, as also my appreciation of the concern of my loved ones who were upset at my thoughtless action and an apology for causing them needless worry.

 

Musings on writing: Circa 2010

The writing bug bit me after a very long time and I was seized with the urge to write something. After casting around for topics in vain, I thought “Why not write about writing?”. After all writing is not something insignificant. Writing is a wonderful thing. It is not about putting pen to paper and scribbling something down. It is about stringing together seemingly meaningless words and phrases and lending meaning to them. Writing is about voicing our thoughts and innermost desires. It brings to life the dreams that have not been realised or that, which cannot be realised, the emotions, the expressions that cannot otherwise be expressed as effectively as it would turn out on paper. Writing just lends a different kind of identity to thoughts, it makes them seem more solid, more stable and lends them permanency. Having written enough about the nature of writing, I think it’s time to move on to people and their highly individualistic styles of writing.

“Can everybody write?” I wondered. Of course, anyone can jot their thoughts down on paper provided they have the patience for it. However, like I said in the earlier paragraph, that alone cannot be called writing. What is it that sets each writer apart from the other? It is their style of writing or the way they choose to express themselves. Why is it that we feel some writers’ words carry weight and are powerful tools of expression whereas some others choose to express themselves in a mellowed down or toned-down fashion? The latter is often mistaken to be dull and uninteresting as it is impassioned and lacks the intensity that the former carries. It need not always be so. The intense or passionate writing style evokes powerful emotions within the reader and the toned-down form of writing makes the reader reflect about what they have just read. Each is good in its own way.

One more thing that brings the difference between various writers is when they write, the timing they choose to write. It is often that the most brilliantly churned out pieces of literature are written at odd hours, the plot and content conceived in odd places. I personally believe that writing needs to be done when the words are flowing inside the brain, when there is the inner urge to write which pushes you to take up the pen, and that is when the writing seems lively and retains a fluid-like quality. In other cases, there are writers who take a very systematic approach with unrelenting focus, their ideas spread out across several spread sheets, steadily building upon the plot and fleshing out the characters. However, either approach works just as well as the other to fulfill the purpose of the writer.

I mentioned earlier that each writer’s style is highly individualistic. Hence there are no such things as good writers or bad writers. There are only writers who carry universal appeal and those whose appeal to a certain section of society. No writer can be criticised for their faults except for maybe factual and grammatical errors committed during writing which cannot be helped as we try our best to steer clear of these errors, but often we do end up making them anyway. Erring is after all, the trait of humans. A writer’s style rises out of the kind of person they are, the kind of environment they are in and everything else that may influence their minds and colour their thoughts. Some of us may write for the love of writing, those who consider writing their passion and like a hobby fall under this category. Then there are those who write with a purpose, the purpose of making their voice reach out to the society and spreading their message far and wide. Then there is the third category whose voices are suppressed due to various reasons and since they have a lot of pent up emotions within them they often adopt the fiery style of lashing out against their oppressors in their writings and this feeling comes across as being very strong writing. Every piece of literature has a tone and feel to it, it is accompanied by the mood that the writer was in while writing, the things on their mind making it seem like the paper is speaking to the reader. Writing truly lends character to a blank white sheet. So, if the writing is what we are, then does the writing style change with changes in our personality? That change in our personality does come across in the writing and serves to unveil the new and modified style cultivated by the writer as their own personality undergoes many transformations.

It is up to us to choose what kind of writing style to adopt while writing and what style of writing to read. However, it’s my opinion that it is best to be well acquainted with both forms of writing. That way we get to truly experience the best of both worlds and its only then that we feel enriched. One must not stick to one style of writing alone. We need to keep experimenting. After all, isn’t variety supposed to be the spice of life?

 

Subjective musings: Optimism v. Pessimism

Generally, nature watching has always set me thinking, especially watching the sun slowly sink into the West. It brings out in me a sense of calm and clear-headedness where I can reflect on things in a better and much more sensible manner. Yesterday while precariously sitting on the ledge, lost in thought while watching the magnificent sunset, I was seriously contemplating whether it is better for me (or anybody) to be optimistic or pessimistic. According to the Oxford dictionary, optimism is “The state of mind where one believes that tomorrow will be better” or “feeling that the best is yet to come”, whereas pessimism is defined as “The tendency of looking on the worst side of things”. I’m a born optimist and always do believe that tomorrow will always be better than today. My friend however is pessimistic but maintains that she is not pessimistic but being “realistic”. So, can being pessimistic equate to being “realistic”? How can you call it as realistic when you are always fearing that something bad is going to happen? That’s hardly any show of realism. Realism would amount to weighing both options carefully and doing things in a clear state of mind, not in an optimistic state of mind or a pessimistic state of mind. While some may maintain that optimism is a trait of foolishness in today’s bad world, I still believe that “Hey, what’s wrong in thinking that tomorrow will be better?”. After all, the very thought that tomorrow might be better would spur us into activity. When we work on it and for it, our tomorrow is definitely bound to be better. Correct? Not only this, optimism is having a sense of hope in your heart and if the hope is lost, then your will is lost and what is there that is left to survive for? It would only become pointless breathing and existence and not “living”. After all, all the visionaries of the world were/are optimistic about the state of their nations, that everything can be worked upon and set right, that they can finally rise to their original glory. This is being optimistic, not that happy infectious state where you believe it’ll be okay no matter what. That would be idealistic to the point of foolishness. I can’t afford to be foolishly optimistic because that would be a very naive thing to do. Also, coming to the point does optimism really weaken a person and does pessimism really toughen anyone up? Yes, the pessimists declare. That since they are always looking out for any bad thing that might happen, they would be better equipped with dealing with bad things and that this would make them tougher beings. Okay, so their point is taken but don’t you think the battle is easier when you are armed with an awesome and deadly combination of preparation + hope? Aren’t we optimists better equipped that way because with hope, half the battle is nearly won because I believe that hope conquers fear and once fear is overcome, your biggest hurdle is cleared leaving the path free for you? Fear is indeed the biggest setback for mankind. Once fear grips you, I swear you can’t do a thing because fear completely cripples you mentally and makes you believe that you are worthless and that you are not up for anything. All the preparations that the pessimists have done stand in vain, mocking at them if they lost belief in themselves and their capabilities. When they don’t have that confidence or the will to go on further and tread a few more steps, how can they do it? after all, where there is a will, there is a way. But if the very will is lost, the cause and the battle both become futile. So, if the result is achieving futility of cause and purpose, then WHAT IS YOUR POINT IN GEARING UP FOR THE FIGHT anyways? This is also proof that confidence is born out of the innate reserves of optimism that one can draw upon in times of desperation and despondency. Most people simply choose to not tap this wonderful and powerful route to happiness. If nothing else, at least your optimism would keep the smile alive on your face even in times of internal strife? You never know who might get caught on to your smile and what might happen next. Plus, the belief stands that smiles are known to produce the most fantastic miracles (which happen to those who believe in them and we optimists do just that) and who knows? That one miracle might be all that it would take to change the course of your life. But of course, this whole piece of blogging was purely subjective and as such, lacks any solid backing or evidence. Having presented points about both optimism and pessimism, I hereby rest my case. I am still not clear as to whether I should remain optimistic or try being realistic. Perhaps I will wait for the next sunset to give me the answers. ;-). (PS-The sunset, itself to me is a symbolism of optimism. You know how the sunset is said to be the sign that darkness is about to fall but that is not so. That statement contains only the partial truth. The truth is, that it is a sign that the sunshine is still there, be it faint rays of sunshine, but it IS there despite the steadily engulfing darkness. To show us that the sun will surely shine through, even when Darkness is about to swallow everything in Her wake. And now, that’s what I call optimism.

By the way, these are the musings of seventeen – year – old me. Naive? Foolish? Wildly optimistic? You decide.

Some of my favourite lines from The Fault in Our Stars

Recently, I read the book – The Fault in Our Stars, by John Green. I know, I know. I am late to the party. But as Hazel Grace says “I take a lot of pride in not knowing what’s cool”. Below are some of my favourite lines from the book.

  1. Pain demands to be felt.
  2. Love is keeping the promise anyway.
  3. I take quite a lot of pride in not knowing what’s cool.
  4. You realize that trying to keep your distance from me will not lessen my affection for you. All efforts to save me from you will fail.
  5. You are so busy being you that you have no idea how utterly unprecedented you are.
  6. Contemporaneity specializes in the kind of battles where no one loses anything of any value, except arguably their lives.
  7. And in freedom, most people find sin.
  8. The Sun was a toddler insistently refusing to go to bed.
  9. One closed door away from the answers I’d dreamed of ever since I read that last unfinished page.

For who so firm, that cannot be seduced? Shakespeare was right. I have been thoroughly seduced, enthralled and enamoured by this book, John Green and his lazy eloquence, his word play, the inexplicable coolness of Hazel Grace, the complexity of Augustus Waters, and the love story that binds them together. A love that lives with them, and as she states… dies with them.

Random Musings

I go like a sucker towards you, not knowing what I want. Every time, I ask myself if this is what I want. What I was looking for. Every time your words alleviate me and I am temporarily​ blinded. Back under a spell of our own making. Who is the fool here? Me for not knowing my own heart, or you for choosing to believe in me? I know my mind, my mind is a comfortable place. You have walked through the valleys, you have held your stead in the back alleys. You have pulled me from the vortex, and yet I wonder if You are the vortex. You suck me in every time, I don’t know what to do. You take down my carefully constructed impervious constructs with a deft stroke of your words that leave me hankering for more. I don’t know myself anymore, I am free falling, I don’t wish for you to catch me, but I hope you will.